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Non negotiables

October 22, 2020 By Melissa Beene Ford Leave a Comment

Laughter.

Thinking the same things are funny. Laughing at all the same ridiculous TV shows and movies. Sending memes, videos, and Bitmojis back and forth all day long because we know what will make each other laugh. Because I’ve lived a life where the only time I ever laughed was when he tripped over something in the middle of the night, and that was unbearable.

Peace.

Tranquility and peace in my stomach when he’s around, security in my stomach when he’s not. Because I lived a life with a constant turmoil in my stomach, and sleepless nights and confusion and knowing in my gut that the stories never, ever added up and this person was not who they were pretending to be because there was never any peace in my stomach, and that was excruciating.

Faithfulness.

Needing them, and they drop everything to be there. Never letting another human come in between us. Celebrating each other’s wins. Being the first one they want to share all the news with, good or bad. Because I’ve lived a life where all other women came first, I always came last, I could never count on them to be there, and when other women came out of the woodwork with rumors, I knew in my gut that they were true, because there was never any shred of loyalty or faithfulness, and that was dismal.

There are more, but that’s my fifteen minutes for today.

See you tomorrow.

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Without hope without light
Till from heaven You came running
There was mercy in Your eyes
To fulfil the law and prophets

To a virgin came the Word
From a throne of endless glory
To a cradle in the dirt

Praise the Father
Praise the Son
Praise the Spirit three in one
God of glory
Majesty
Praise forever to the King of Kings

To reveal the kingdom coming
And to reconcile the lost
To redeem the whole creation
You did not despise the cross

For even in Your suffering
You saw to the other side
Knowing this was our salvation
Jesus for our sake You died

And the morning that You rose
All of heaven held its breath
Till that stone was moved for good
For the Lamb had conquered death

And the dead rose from their tombs
And the angels stood in awe
For the souls of all who’d come
To the Father are restored

And the Church of Christ was born
Then the Spirit lit the flame
Now this gospel truth of old
Shall not kneel shall not faint

By His blood and in His Name
In His freedom I am free
For the love of Jesus Christ
Who has resurrected me
HaPPy NeW YeaR! 🎉 Is today the day we throw out HaPPy NeW YeaR! 🎉 Is today the day we throw out the cat houses made of all the Christmas boxes and blue tape, or do we have to wait for epiphany? 🤔 Wishing you ALL the blessings of a brand new year! 👏🏻 May the Lord crown the year with bounty so that even the wagon tracks overflow with abundance. Psalm 65:11 🌱
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