My cousin Clayton passed away Monday. That’s him in the middle.
While I never had the chance to really know this kid, I wish I had. He lived in California, a world away from East Texas, and I only had the chance to be around him once, at a family reunion a few years back. He was the life of the party even then.
At not quite 19 years old, he died leaving behind a legacy that most of us never will in a full lifetime, and I’m so touched and impressed by his obituary that I just had to share it here…..I hope you’ll take the time to read it and check out the video clip:
Clayton Stanton McDonald went home to be with the Lord March 16, 2009 at 8:33 am just 40 days shy of his 19th birthday. He impacted more people in his short time on earth than many do in 75 or more years. He loved people and spent his days investing in people’s lives, always thinking of others before himself. Everyone who came in contact with him always considered him a close friend even if they only knew him for a brief period. Clayton was diagnosed with leukemia at 7 and underwent 2.5 years of chemotherapy, had two plus years of good health and then relapsed in 2003 and underwent a bone marrow transplant. He again experienced a 2+ year period of health
and fell out of remission September 2006 and then underwent a second bone marrow transplant in January 2007, and was able to enjoy his senior year in high school with his classmates, even participation on the diving team and qualifying for the CIF championships. After a productive summer working with junior high youth ministry at Atascadero Bible Church and participating in a mission trip to Costa Rica, he began to feel anemic. A trip to Stanford in October 2008 indicated that the leukemia had returned
for a fourth time. At this point it was clear that a cure was not possible. Clayton chose to forgo treatment and live out his final days without chemotherapy. He then took the opportunity to tell his story to all who would listen, speaking at Atascadero Bible Church, Cornerstone Church of Simi Valley and multiple schools and youth groups throughout the county. Finally on Wednesday March 11, 2009 he spoke to over 900 of his peers at
Cal Poly.
To see more of his story Click Here.
Clayton is survived by his mom and dad Wendy and Stan McDonald and his brother and sister Zack and Samantha, his grandparents and two great grandmothers and extended family.
The memorial celebration will be held at Atascadero Bible Church Saturday March 21, 2009 at 1:00 pm.
Seriously. Let his life be a message to you.
Clayton knew he had a mission to fulfill on this earth, and only a short time in which to complete it.
What about you?
Do you live like you have 100 more years?
Haphazardly wasting your days?
Or do you, like Clayton, make every moment count, never knowing if tomorrow might be the day….
Look at the Facebook group Clayton McDonald: In Memory Of if you don’t believe me…..this kid truly made an impact everywhere he went.
He wasn’t afraid to die.
Are you?
Do you need to make peace with God?
Do it now.
WOW, thanks for the reminder, sorry about your loss. I came across your blog on pioneer woman. I also live in East Texas!!
Wow Melissa! What a great testimony of faith. May God’s peace surround you and your family. Love you girl!
thought provoking. been thinking more and more about how i "use my time".<BR/><BR/>so sorry to hear about your cousin. but what a legacy he left behind.
That is a great blog in honor of your cousin TG. And just to show how small the world is–I grew up in Atascadero. <BR/>Blessings, LKS
Oh, what a neat kid…I remember you telling me about him once before, but I didn’t realize it was him who died, or that he was that sick. He has a perfect body now…what a blessing. Thanks for posting that. Lots of us need reminders of how much better we should spend our time.
We have been praying for the McDonald family here in Quito – very small world. One of the interns with Youth World is from California and is best friends with Clayton’s brother, Zack. Thanks for sharing this beautiful blog in honor of your cousin.