Let me just start out by saying that I NEVER wanted this blog to be a drama-filled soap opera. And for that matter, I never wanted my life to be a soap opera.
I hate soap operas.
Even WORSE than soap operas, I hate reality TV. I hate kissing shows and fake shows about fake love and ridiculous drama and fake, fake, fake.
I hate The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, and Lifetime Movies for Women and ALL that garbage. There may be something wrong with me, but I’d rather watch Guy Fieri on Food Network (LOVE) or some sexy manly carpenter build something on HGTV, or heck, I’d even rather watch The Disney Channel than all that drama.
My apologies to those of you whom I’ve offended by disrespecting The Bachelor.
But I’ve started something, and I intend to finish it. And when I say ‘I’ve started something,’ what I really mean is that this dadgum LIfetime Reality Soap Opera for Women was inflicted upon me by no choice of my own.
For those of you just tuning in, I found myself being harassed by a certain someone who took it upon themselves to leave nasty little comments on my blog. Dozens upon dozens of them. Oh, I was fairly certain I knew who it was, mind you, given the past history of hateful words texted to me at various hours in the middle of the night.
And I really don’t want to dwell in the nastiness, but for one final moment, for purposes of closure, I’m going to address this, and then forever delete her nasty hateful words from my life forever, and return to my previously scheduled programming of children, bacon, and Jesus.
Well, most of the time. 😉
To find the IP address from an email, look at your email inbox, and right-click on the email you want to identify. A box will pop up; scroll down to View Full Header. Click that. A box of jibberish will pop up; the IP address is in there. But the trouble is, its hard to spot, so (right click) Select All that nonsense, and (right click) Copy, then Go Here, scroll down to the box at the bottom of the page, and (right click) Paste in the box. It will tell you the IP address. Write that number down.
This is the section of the email from my stalker where I found her IP address:
And yes, I blacked out all the identifying info. I know who she is, my friends know who she is, and most importantly, SHE and GOD know who she is, and that’s alls who needs to know. But if you’ll notice, her IP address starts with 66, which just so happen to be the first two digits in Satan’s IP address, too! Small world.
My next step was to install Sitemeter on my blog. And you’ll want to get the subscription one, and not the free one, because (and I could be mistaken on this), the subscription one will tell you more details about who is visiting and when.
Wow. Awesome! I really hope that she can move on and leave you alone!!
Great info, thanks!! I hope your stalker will move ON! Good for you for exposing darkness!
Good work. You're nicer than me, but good work.
Well said Em. She is nicer than I as well. ;-)<br /><br />You are one smart chick, M. 🙂 Love ya.
Yuck. What a horrible thing to have to deal with. So glad that you were able to find a way to block her from your blog. <br />I have to say, by far the best line in this whole post is <br />"But if you'll notice, her IP address starts with 66, which just so happen to be the first two digits in Satan's IP address, too! Small world." ! You are hilarious! <br />I hope blocking her
Thanks, Melissa, for the info. Wish I'd had this years ago! Stay safe and be wrapped in peace today.
Team B Scene! Just sayin'.;)
Thank you all. 🙂 She has caused me TONS of drama, that's for sure, and I could have done the same for HER, especially seeing as how she's using her work computer to do all this harassment…. but really, all I want her to do is to leave me alone. Hopefully now she will.
I'm glad you didn't delete your blog-I so enjoy your sense of humor and always enjoy reading your posts.<br /><br />Honestly, your line "But if you'll notice, her IP address starts with 66, which just so happen to be the first two digits in Satan's IP address, too! Small world." is too hilarious for words. I'm so glad you have been able to maintain your sense of
What a sad little life she must have to spend hours and hours stalking yours! She really must be extremely jealous of you. So, therefore, you should be flattered.
YOU ROCK!!!
Wow! That's a lot of drama!!! I am very glad you are still blogging! You have such a great ability to write…yours is one of my favorite blogs to read!!! Here's praying your drama is OVER!!!
Thank you so much for this!! I am sending the link to my cousin and praying this will help her get rid of her stalker. Unfortunately, hers shows up in her real life as well but at least she can deny her this form of access. I now have to remember to x out of blogs before I get distracted and wander off so it doesn't look like I've been on one for hours. Ooops.
When I said that THIS was the final chapter, I meant it.<br /><br />I will no longer be publishing comments from Crazy or any of her friends. So if you have something to say that makes me believe she sent you, I won't be publishing your comment.<br /><br />Go write your own blog.
And that, ladies….is how real women "take the bull by the horns". Amen.
Love you girl! Sorry you've had to deal with so much in the past few years. I'm glad she will be forced to leave you alone now.<br />Melissa H.
*sigh* what a suck-fest that you have to deal with this crazy lady. Love you and hope things get much better for you! I am cheering that you caught her…that was awesome!!! hahaha!!
giiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiirl i am SO glad i found you. and i never would have if all those silly people wouldn't have had a fit over don miller's GREAT posts! (i digress…)<br /><br />i feel your pain. it is my understanding that any blogger who has more than 2 followers, will at some point pick up a nasty stalker like you did. kind of like picking up a nasty parasite on vacation to cabo that